Inclusion vs Exclusion

I was over at a school in Roanoke, Virginia, where there was an incident of bullying, and I was at this rally for about two and a half hours that I participated in. I got to know some really cool people, and I heard some things that were not very nice and were kind of mean. So, this is where the exclusion part comes into place.

Forgive me if I go off on this, but why is today’s society so exclusive to people and not inclusive like they used to be? Why is today’s society so harsh on each other, but yet be so nice at the same time?

I guess it depends on how you are raised and how you are brought up, and how you value others and their respect, and how you value others and their feelings, for when you include someone, you accept their emotions, you accept their feelings, you accept for who they are, you accept the type of person they are, and you love them nonetheless.

Exclusion and the instance of bullying is to separate from one person to another their values. Exclusion is the lack of self-esteem and a lack of self-confidence and the lack of self-control, albeit being obvious that the bully has the utter lack of self-control because, they are being exclusive and untolerable to people who are nice and who are brought up the right way.

Because in my opinion people who are bullies have been either bullied by someone they know, who were a friend to them, or they are bullied by someone within their family. So they have to take it out on someone else. They find someone else who they feel they can control and who they feel that they can be superior of and start bullying people.

When did that become such a serious issue? When did bullying and the exclusivity of people of separation become an issue to the point to where it has to have an end result of being a suicide or someone being hospitalized or someone being interrogated when they are not the victim, when in actuality they are, and when they are the bullied victim, but yet they are the ones interrogated when it’s the bully’s fault to begin with because they were doing the bullying?

When did society become of age to when bullying became so intolerable that students have to bear it at their school to the point where they have to be taken out in order to have an education? When did society become so exclusive that schools and school administration and higher-ups like superintendents have to be so rude, crude, and not live up to their potential of protecting the students within their schools and keeps sweeping bullying under the rug and not protect the students within their schools, within their districts, within their towns throughout not only Virginia, but the whole entire world?

What will it take to make this exclusivity of taking the schools and making this bullying epidemic go away, so that way people can accept one another again and be able to take care for one another? If you can’t accept the fact that you can’t accept other people’s values, at least be able to know that you can voice your opinion but know that if it’s in a bullying sacrifice and if it’s in a bullying voice, to where there is enough hatred, know that what you are saying and doing is wrong. Just because you are bullying someone, and you feel you have the superiority to be able to bully or to bully for other people to the fact that you are protected but yet the bullied victims aren’t. That is the question and that is the inclusive and the exclusive point I’m trying to make between the inclusive and the exclusive.

I hope you got some meaning out of this and someone is able to take what I say at heart. Know the difference between right and wrong, the difference between inclusive and exclusive, the difference between society today, school administration, and the district’s involved. So that way bullying will no longer be swept under the rug and be taken care of and taught right and in schools. This way it is educated that bullying is not right. It is very wrong, and it should be contended with in a very private but not social media way.

Do not take it to the social media unless if you feel you have to voice your opinion in order to be heard, not just for the sensationalism of it. Know that when you do, that you have a right to be protected and know that you have a right to be protected under state law or town law wherever you may live in this world or in this country. There are some laws that can protect you depending where you are. So just take this salt for granted and take my words of advice and please say to other people to know the difference between right and wrong.

Go to your schools. If you have to go to local government officials to be able to get this bullying issue stopped from being swept under the rug so that way it can be contended with in the schools and educated in the school. Know what the difference is between right and wrong, so there will be no more inclusive and exclusive issues going on with bullying between schools, school administration, and the town and the people who live in that town. I hope that you are able to get my message between inclusive and exclusiveness.